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Smile because you're happy. ^^

After walking this earth for almost 20 years. I've come across many kinds of characters. I think there is a sort of character/personality which im rather vexed about.

Instead of browsing thru the words, think over the sentences.
If you're feeling pissed over the following words, you know you don't want to be like that.
And you're on a path to something great. ^^

A person who knows that he/she made the other party angry/sad/irritated/pissed,etc. would usually feel apologetic and feel bad. Trying his/her best to cheer the other party up, by what ever means possible, to make up for the mistake just now. That is what i normally do and i know most of you guys do.

Then, there is the other group of people, its kind of hard to figure out. Cause unless you're willing to give in, you'll never be able to resolve the conflicts with that party. This group, specializes in being RIGHT. Always right.

If u get angry with that person because he/she does something which makes the other party sad/angry/irritated/pissed,etc. he/she instead of feeling guilt/apologetic/sorry, he/she will get angry with you for being angry with him/her!

That doesn't make much sense doesn't it?

So, how do you deal with this kind of people? Well, you can't. =) You just have to feel fucked up inside. Your blood boiling. You feel like...argh... And you can't do anything about it.

But, can i share one way how to resolve this? If you belong to the 'other' group. Okay..if you know, your other party is angry. If you are the 'other' and after reading this, you're feeling very pissed, relax. Take a time to ponder over this.

Now this is what you do:

1: Think over what would be the issue.
2: Talk nicely <---very important, don't lose your cool. (Losing your cool makes the other party feel you're angry with him/her also)
3: Discuss over the issue. (Most probably a misunderstanding?)
4: Solved.

After that, both parties will be happy. Just cause both parties didn't get angry with each other and one party tried to cool the other party down. Its simple right? but its easier said than done.

If you really really really get a sincere apology. And that group of people really tried to make up for causing you to be in such distress, you know that this him/her has finally realized their mistakes. And a good change is about to happen. God Bless. ^^

There are some people whom i wish won't be the 'other' group. Please. I pray. Im trying to hold on.

Note: Im not pin-pointing anyone. It just a sudden wave of inspiration caught my mind and I had to note it down.

sigh